Is Your Marriage Fire Proof?

It has been a couple of years since the flick, "Fire Proof", has been out, but with all of the talk of Tiger Woods cheating, I presumed I'd ask the question , is your marriage fire proof?

There are three things that everybody can do to fire proof their marriages. If you put into operation these three simple commitments, your relationship with your partner will be fruitful and long. Now I say commitments because without commitments, there's no marriage or relationship. Without commitments there's little at all about anything.

Commitments make the world go around. I suspect America has trouble with commitment, that's why 50 % of all marriages will end in divorce. We make commitments in business, with friends, our youngsters and our better half, but give little notice to when we break those commitments. Our commitments need our daily calls to make those commitments work.

Here are 3 commitments, if put into place and followed everyday without wavering, will change your life.

1. Commit to Always Keep Growing With your better half

can you remember when you and your partner first were dating? Wasn't that great! Nothing apart from uninterrupted time together. Do whatever it is you want. Go wherever you wished to go. You laughed and talked for hours, and didn't care what time it was. What's happened to it? It should never stop. There are times when it may slow down, nevertheless it should never ever stop. Your kids will grow up and move away, you will retire from that job some day, but you will always have your partner. Invest a little time back into your relationship and watch it grow.

two. Make Barriers and Stay Way Behind Them

The scene is 2 people having words with one another and the one draws a line in the ground and says, " I dare you to cross it". You've got to set up and follow those lines prior to getting into those sticky scenarios that will require you to make a split second decision. It's not if those situations might happen, it's when they will occur, and they may occur. That is's when the decision you make, could define the remainder of your life. Just ask Tiger Woods.

3. Find a liability Partner

A responsibility partner is somebody that you go to chat about your private stuff, whatever it is. Someone you are close to and trust with these intimate parts of your life. It could be an older person, or more then one individual, but it can never, ever, be someone of the alternative sex. Unless it's your mum, and then you won't need to share that kind of stuff with your ma. This is exceedingly important. To have someone who can step down to you and say, "I think your wrong..... You better be cautious about this....watch where your going. " These are not common people indeed, because we've got a tendency to always adhere to those that will say what we need them to say.

Tiger Woods was always so close to his father. I'm not sure for sure, but I think that his father was kinda like his accountability partner. They probably talked all of the time about different things. He went to all his contests and was always there to greet him when he came off the course. It was very hard for Tiger Woods after his father died. I remember that first tournament that he won after his dads death. Tears streaming down his face, the emotional Tiger Woods wept in the arms of his other half. His good chum was not there to greet him this time.

All of the infidelity Problems that Tiger has been coping with have all come after his father's death. This is probably the most significant part of the three. Learn how to be responsible to somebody. It may mean the difference between a healthy marriage or divorce.

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